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Here and Now

10 Thursday Jan 2013

Posted by Rob in Babies, burial, Competition, death, Fiction, Life, Uncategorized, Writing

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Competition, death, life, musings, thoughts, writing

The Inkwell’s monthly “Half-hour Challenge” competition, themed “Bells” for January.

GraveyardWhat you can see or can’t see depends upon where your eyes are and which way they’re pointing; the light; and what’s in the way. I can see a hand. I think it’s mine, though I can’t seem to prompt any movement. The hand is lying on a patch of vertical lawn. No, maybe horizontal lawn, viewed from equally horizontal head. Beyond the lawn is a huge yew tree; behind that, a graveyard and a church. A bell is ringing, slow and sonorous, like a death march. “Dong” he says: walk this way. Again “dong”: slow and sober, but not distracted or deviated, please. “Dong”: inevitability is overwhelming. “Dong”: the birds twitter on regardless.
It’s a sunny day. I can feel the warmth on my back. A shiny black fly burbles and bumbles around the gravestones, busy and blissfully unaware. Dandelion seeds drift by me, riding the warm breeze.
Everything is here and now. Life goes on apace. Bodies lie in their graves but don’t complain. Babies are born and complain about everything. Children grow and learn their lot. The bell tolls for another who shakes off the mantle of time and returns to the earth.

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Innocence

31 Wednesday Oct 2012

Posted by Rob in Age, Babies, Baby, free will, Thoughts, Uncategorized

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baby, Experience, free will, life, musings, Self-control, thoughts

We think of babies as innocent. I guess by that we mean that they are not responsible for their actions. Fair enough. Babies seem utterly selfish to me: they’re only interested in their own needs and cry if they are not fulfilled. They’re not interested in how they’re provided for, the cost, the time or energy invested. Of course, they can’t be expected to understand such things, so again, fair enough.

Parents, teachers and others, society, teach and nurture each baby; teach them right from wrong and the ways of the world. By this process, the baby grows to adulthood and is expected to take responsibility for his/her actions. We no longer regard him/her as innocent per se. He/she may be accused, brought to task and punished for transgression.

I don’t want to get embroiled in a nature versus nurture argument. A baby is not responsible for either his/her nature or his/her nurture. So once he/she grows to adulthood, what can he/she be reasonably asked to accept responsibility for? Behaviour is the result of nurture on nature. Who is responsible for behaviour? Why is an adult any more or less innocent than a baby?

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Are Babies Beautiful?

31 Tuesday Jul 2012

Posted by Rob in Babies, Baby, beauty, Life, Musings, Thoughts, Uncategorized

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beauty, life, musings, thoughts

Of course, I accept the promise of a new life, the joy for the parents, the innocence, the maternal instincts they engender.
But strictly from an aesthetic viewpoint, are babies beautiful?  It seems almost universally accepted that they are.  I am looked on in disbelief if I try to suggest otherwise: a blasphemer or heretic.  Yet they seemed bloated, misshapen, gargoyle-like to me.  Am I the only one who sees them this way?

I’m no Herod: I don’t dislike babies or children.  As is often the case, on so many subjects, I find my thinking is wildly different from those around me.  It interests me to explore why that is.  If you can put aside the cooing, are you able to explain to me what is visually pleasing about a baby, please?

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